How to change your life when you know what you want it to look like! Do you find yourself asking these questions?
- how to change your life
- how to get your life together
- how will you measure your life
- how to live your best life
Nick Breau addresses these often asked questions with his insightful teachings in this video. How to change your life when you know what you want it to look like! Watch here
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The source of the plateau is probably going to be something different for different people.
Interesting. So that leads perfectly into my next question because I don’t have issues of fear. That’s never been my thing. My problem has always been about playing catch up. So I wanted to ask you, how do you apply the new paradigm, which I absolutely love, because I feel like I’ve spent my whole life in the old paradigm. Right. And that’s helped me accomplish a lot, but now I’m, again, I’ve reached that plateau. So how do you apply that to being a solo preneur? Because that is what I am right now. And it’s constant overwhelm, constant to-do lists always feel like I’m trying to catch up, but never actually getting there.
And when you say catch up, what are you trying to catch up to? Is it catch up to a certain level of clients? Is it catch up to an income? Is it catch up to what’s the catch? What’s the catch up
He’s always about. And I know I’m not supposed to compare myself to others, but I compare myself to inspire myself and then I see so many great people doing great things. They’re like everywhere in social media, they have like, you know, presence everywhere. They’re just doing so much. And I feel like I am too, but I don’t have the help. You know, I don’t have, I feel like I could be doing all those things and I’m always trying to catch up to where everybody else is.
Okay. So you’ve basically always
Started at the same time. Like, you know, even though we were exactly,
You’ve basically what you’re describing to me, it sounds like you’ve got a perception of what that business needs to look like. Yes,
I have a vision and I never get to it because of time because of research resources, help all of that solo preneur.
So all of that stuff. Do you think that, so a, does that stuff excite you and feel fun?
Yes. I love it. I have so many things I love so much. And so it’s the frustration of not being able to do those things, not being able to accomplish them.
Okay. So it doesn’t sound like you’re procrastinating in any way.
So really what you’re doing is you’re being attached to an outcome, right? Yes. Yeah. So are you having fun with your business?
Love it. It’s the best thing in the world and that’s why it’s been, I feel so successful so far, even in my limited way of doing it because at the same time, I’m a single mom. I’m responsible for other people. So I’m hyper focused, hyper productive, but still not quite
There. Right. And if you’re having a blast in your business, if you’re in the state of pleasure in your business, if it’s exciting, why does it matter that you’re not there?
Because I guess I feel like, um, this, I think maybe it has to do with that middle age thing where it’s like, I change careers from academia to entrepreneurship and I feel like I’m behind so need to get to a certain level. And I, and I, and again, I feel like the business is already so successful and feels so great. It could be doubly triply, more successful. I could reach more people. I could help more people. So
When you get there, you’re going to feel the same thing again and again and again. Right. So
I feel like I don’t even want the foundation, you know, of all the things that you’re supposed to have. Right.
Throw supposed to out the window, right. Because one entrepreneur, you can have five people with the same product, the same offering and the path to success for each one of those people could be completely different. Right. So my more curious about this, I’m behind feeling. So can we play with that a little bit?
Yeah. Yeah. Cause that’s my Dom. Maybe that’s the resistance. That’s always my dominant vibration. Yeah.
If I said, I feel behind because what pops in your head, the first thing that pops in your head,
I feel behind because my business is not the way I envision it to be yet.
And why does that mean? So again, you’re in the journey of the business, right. And the journey is ongoing. So why do you believe that? Because you’re not where you think you should be. That that means that you’re behind.
Yeah. Because I look at other people in my same niche and think they’re doing fantastic things and are way ahead and I should be there too.
What if you’re building a stronger vibrational foundation with your business? I hadn’t thought of it that way, because progress happens first and foremost at the vibrational level. Right. And I mean, the story that comes to mind, I know it sounds cliche is the tortoise and the Hare. Yeah. Right. And I remember when I put out my first book, power of joy, when I got the first draft back from the editor, it took me nine months to get back to the draft, just to do the edits, no matter how much I tried, I just, the energy wasn’t there. I just couldn’t get back to it. And during those nine months, Wayne Dyer passed away. I reflected a lot on his writing style. And then when the energy subtly came back to get back to the book, I came back with a fresh new energy. I changed all the chapters.
I integrated stories. And that’s the reason people love that book so much. So those nine months of delay were probably the best thing that could have happened for that book and for my writing style and for the power of joy that came next. Right. So if I go back in time to that period where it was time for me to get back to those edits, and I had five friends who all put out those books nine months before me, does that necessarily mean that I’m behind? What if nine months later when my book goes out, I’m selling way more books out of the gate. That’s true. That’s true. So this, I feel like I’m behind feeling.
Can you acknowledge that your path is unique to you and then everybody you’re comparing yourself to that they all have their own unique paths. Yes. Yes. It still brings up that resistance. Right. I need to work on that. Okay. And what’s that resistance? What’s that feeling of time, right? Like there’s never enough time. You always have to rush. You have to, you know, you have a to-do list that never ends. Okay. And I feel that way because, because I have big dreams I want to accomplish and I don’t feel like I’m there yet. Okay. And from the vibration of, I’m not there yet in physical reality exactly.
As homework for you on this topic is spend 15 minutes a day just doing positive aspect lists, write about all the things that you’re satisfied with the new reality, right? About all of the current things about your business that you’re satisfied with. So practice tuning into, um, the successes and the things that bring satisfaction. Pleasure is I think the most potent force in all of this work and the more pleasure you can find in what you’re doing, not caring about where you’re at. That’s, what’s going to accelerate you faster. There’s a saying, I think Beshara says it the more you’re okay with what is the faster you’re going to go.
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