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Self Worth | What Do You Do When Someone Brings Down Your Vibration?:
Transcript for those who prefer to read is below:
So in the collective, I did a call. It was a 90 minute call about how to stop other people from lowering your vibe or how to stop family members from lowering your vibe. Um, which is a very common question. So you basically have three options. Option one is to go live in a cave.
Option two is to control everybody around you. So they’re being the person you need them to be so that you can maintain your alignment. And I don’t know, which is more realistic. Number one or number two.
And then number three, which is the only real option is to investigate what you have going on, what perspectives you’re practicing that pulls you down because it’s never really about them and their behavior.
“Their behavior is the trigger, but it’s the perspective that we’re choosing that create the negative emotions that pull us down.”
Self Worth – Not good enough vs I’m a rockstar!
So for example, somebody who has a lot of emotional baggage of “not good enough”, all it takes is for somebody to say one little thing and it really triggers that “not good enough” menace. And they might be feeling that strongly for a day or two, right?
Somebody else who feels really, really confident, like the rock, he might have somebody come up to him and say, Hey, rock, you suck. You’re the worst actor ever. And he’s so confident that it doesn’t bother him at all, right? Because he doesn’t have that in his emotional baggage. I’m assuming.
So it’s always more difficult when it’s family members because we put more weight on what family members say, but if you’ve got a family member that’s weighing you down, that’s pulling down. Then it’s about asking yourself, you know, how are they making me feel? What is it triggering inside of me? And then working through that inside of yourself. And if you can identify clear that then that person will no longer trigger you in that way.
Does that make sense? Makes sense. Yeah. And I know it’s easier said than done for a lot of people, but if you can do an attraction point audit and identify what your dominant negative emotions are and then work through it and release it, with the right reframing work, you can get to a place where you experience lots of self worth and general worthiness. I think perhaps you put this new understanding into your little pandora’s box and then every time this person says something, it pops open. Your self worth stays intact!
So I have to do some investigation, I think. And do you know what emotion that triggers? Is it not good enough? Is it a lack of control? Is it I’ve loved? Is it abandoned? Can you tell what emotion they trigger a little confronting to say this on camera, but I think it is unworthiness. Yeah. That’s “not good enough” as the most common one that I see and unworthy is right up along.
I can almost guarantee you that over half of the people that watch this video can relate. Right. And what you need to do is you need to ask yourself, you know, I feel unworthy because, or what am I, what thought am I thinking that makes me feel unworthy, right? And if that person’s making you feel unworthy, you know, there’s some reframing work you can do around it. Right? So just because that person doesn’t see your worthiness doesn’t mean that it’s not there. No, of course not. Right. I know you’re worthy.
Your inner being knows you’re worthy. I bet you’ve got a lot of friends that say that you’re worthy just because that person has emotional baggage, that doesn’t allow them to express things in a positive way. Maybe for them treating you as if you’re unworthy is a form of validation for them, right? Maybe that’s how they know how to uplift themselves. Maybe they’re afraid to give you positive validation. You have no idea what’s going on in that person’s mind to make you feel unworthy. But the important thing for you to recognize is the way they’re treating you, has nothing to do with you. And it’s all about that.
Emotions – positive and negative – are a point of view | perspective:
That’s true. So it’s like not changing focus but take away. I say you’re worthy. And that person says you’re unworthy. Well, who’s right. And who’s wrong. You are, you get to choose. Yeah. Right. In my book, I talked about how emotions are a point of view. Right? Not good enough.
That’s just a point of view. I can decide. I’m not good enough. I can decide I’m good enough. Right? Every negative emotion is a point of view. And as a creator, you’re powerful enough to choose the point of views that serve you back. Yes. Makes sense. Awesome. Cool. This was a great chat. I think I’ve given you a lot of stuff to chew on. You did. That was really nice. Thank you so much. Awesome. Good. Send me an update after a couple of days or a week and let me know how you’re feeling, how you’re making out will do. Awesome. Perfect. Thanks for playing. Thank you. Bye.
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